BLOGTOBERFEST, Day 23
In December, I mentioned that I was helping my SIL, Lesley, make her first quilt. It is a 100 Wishes quilt, for the son they adopted from China just before last Christmas, my sweet nephew Caleb.
In Northern China, where Caleb hails from, it is customary to invite friends and family to contribute a patch of cloth with a wish for the baby. Part of the patch of cloth goes into the quilt, and the other part of the cloth is kept in a scrapbook along with the wish for the child. The quilt contains the luck, energy, and good wishes from all the families and friends who contributed fabric; hence the name, a 100 Good Wishes Quilt. Great idea, right? Well, many adoptive families carry on this tradition to commemorate welcoming a new little one into their family.
Lesley had never made a quilt before, but she was determined to make one of these for their son. She started collecting fabric about six months before they traveled to China to meet him and bring him home. I helped her decide on a block, and a layout, and answered questions for her as needed (usually via the telephone). Her project is an ambitious one, Caleb has a full size bed, so this first quilt is a LARGE quilt.
She had cut and sewn every block herself with fabric donated from friends and family, and while they were in China last December, I squared them all up for her, and got them ready for piecing. I also made the two special embroidered blocks to surprise her with at Christmas.
Last month, I agreed to help Lesley with the layout of the quilt, and instruct her on the next step — piecing the rows together. We realized we needed a few more blocks to make it the size we wanted, so we pulled out the fabrics and pieced 13 more blocks.
Caleb is fascinated with how things work. Once he saw the sewing machine come out, he was not the least bit interested in playing with his brother and his cousins — he wanted to know more about this strange looking machine, and more importantly, use it himself! Above, I am explaining to him how the sewing machine works, and he did not leave my side for the rest of the afternoon. He even sewed a few seams, pressed blocks, and the best part — helped us decide on the layout of his quilt:
He loved this task, and he was so proud of his work:
and see the border fabrics being auditioned in that photo? That was Caleb’s doing. Somehow he knew that is what you do, take your big pieces of fabric and try them out along the sides of the quilt to “audition” borders:
This day was a treat for his Mom and I; neither of us had any idea that Caleb would be involved in the making of his own quilt top. But like I said, his natural curiosity for learning new things, especially when there is any kind of technology involved, kept him with us all afternoon. I am so proud of this boy, he might actually be the one I get to teach how to quilt and sew!
His Mom, Lesley, has since sewn her rows together, and she needs to add the borders, piece a back out of the leftover fabrics, and have it quilted.
On December 16th, it will be one year since he came home, and became a citizen of the United States. Since that time; he celebrated his 5th birthday, attended a semester of pre-school, had surgery to fix his cleft palate, began speaking English, started kindergarten this fall, and joined a soccer team. I’m sure there are a hundred other important milestones I haven’t mentioned here. He loves his big brother, and Daddy and Mama, adores his grandparents and other extended family members. It’s hard to remember that just one year ago, he was only a little boy in a photograph, from the other side of the World, that we all looked forward to meeting. He fits so well, it seems like he’s been a part of our family forever.
Yay Caleb! I think you’re a quilter!
Oh Doris, you’re one lucky aunt. He’s a cutie I love his full-face smile. Made me smile.
He “helped” me make a wreath last night 🙂 Always a helper, that boy. Love him crazy.
Oh you KNOW that I fully understand just how special this quilt and the little boy are. I’m glad to see it on its way to being finished and having him help makes it that more a treasure. Can’t wait to see the final result.
Now you’ve reminded me that I need to finally get the binding on my son’s 100 Good Wishes Quilt and get my arse in gear and get my daughter’s done too. time, just need a lot more time. LOL
That is so neat, it gives me goose bumps. I love your last paragraph. I think it’s wonderful that he enjoyed helping to make his quilt! Watch out, though. It can be a mixed blessing. When E wants to sew, then it all comes to a halt for me! 😉
This is so sweet! The quilt is such a neat idea, and that he wanted to help with it… that’s so fun!
What a sweet story. Made me tear up a bit. :`)
That is all incredibly wonderful! And it sounds like you might have a Joel Dewberry or David Butler on your hands… 🙂
You made him another memory. You have a special connection that will be yours always now. Wish him a Happy Adoption Day!